If you're not jumping out of bed at least somewhat excited to do it all over again today...
You don't necessarily need to go full on Moira Rose (unless you want to!) but you're also tired of painting a perma smile on your face pretending everything is fine when everything is not, in fact, FINE.
✨ A sense of the unaccomplished
✨ Giving up your identity for the sake of your family & career
✨ A burning desire for more from your life
✨ A deep longing to leave some form of legacy
✨ A yearning for a more meaningful and fulfilling, inspired life
✨ A lingering unhappiness that just can't be quenched
✨ Resentfully putting yourself last on your priority list time and again
You can "have it all" but sometimes we need more. It's not good, bad, right, or wrong...it just...is.
You? You're ready to "do the work"
Satisfaction. IMPACT. Fulfillment. Meaning. Joy. EXCITEMENT. Contentment. Purpose. Connection. Enjoyment. PLEASURE. Adventure. <insert your own feeling here>.
Knowing exactly who you are so you can live & love the hell out of your life = priceless
"Life is a hamster wheel and I can't wait to run around in circles..."
What if you put down the personal development books (because let's be honest - they're hurting more than they're helping at this point), just for a moment, and tried a proven, enjoyable framework for "doing the work"?
One that starts with desire and can't help but end in healing so you can live & love the hell out of your life NOW!
The opportunity costs of an unfulfilled life are staggering...
It's why the personal development industry is projected to be $50B+ by 2028
"Do The Work": a 3-month immersive, high-touch, completely customized experience
The one-on-one way to quickly & enjoyably "eh - it's ok" proof your life for good!
Never question again, "Is this really all there ever is?"
Twelve weeks of expert guidance from someone who has been there, done that and lessons to help you tap into your deepest desires, define the more you need in your life, and take intentional & inspired action to move you closer and closer to living your most fulfilling life.
All designed to give you tools for life and be the last personal development product you'll ever need.
You'll walk away with:
✨ Knowing what you need more of in your life and exactly how to get it
✨ A roadmap for making those unaccomplished dreams a reality
✨ Knowing what goes into the care and feeding of YOU so your needs continue to be met and you're never at the bottom of your list again
✨ Having your back always along with all the selfs - kindness, compassion, worthiness, love, friendship, leadership, and most importantly - awareness
✨ A library of tools & resources you'll use time and again because life will absolutely throw you curve balls
We start by creating a super detailed vision of your best 80-yo future self. Why? Because she only wants the best for you - off-the-charts levels of happiness, fulfillment, and deep contentment - and will guide you in decision making and action taking that benefit both current and future you. She has the answers you need!
Next, we work on creating a loving relationship with yourself - that of a best friend - one that is full of self-compassion, kindness, worthiness and love and always has your back. Why? Because you have to believe deep in your bones that you are beyond worthy of everything you crave. Never question again - Who am I and what do I want from my life?
While we create a vision of future you and work on radical self-acceptance, compassion, grace, and kindness (aka love), we also take time to identify the gaps, create plans that have you taking intentional action that brings that inspired vision of you to life so that current meets future and future remains feeling happy, whole, deeply content, and loving her life.
Using my expert project management skills I guide you through the entire process - from high-level strategy to just enough planning to a metric-ton of inspired action and reflection so we can course-correct and adjust as necessary. I’m right there by your side the entire way.
START WITH DESIRE
BECOME YOUR OWN BFF
TRANSFORMATION FROM THE INSIDE OUT
How it works...
✨ Feelings of excitement, expansiveness, hope, and deep belief during our weekly (12) 60-minute conversations where we roll up our sleeves and go deep so you can create your most fulfilling life as quickly and enjoyably as possible
✨ Comfort & support in knowing what to do next to bring your desired future self closer to your current self so you can build momentum as quickly as possible and learn how to keep it going when life has other plans
✨ Feeling supported with me in your back pocket (via voxer) as you process, dream, scheme, freak out and allthethings
✨ Confidence with the life-long skills and knowing you'll always have your back and exercises that are actually fun to do because I don't know any other way to make lasting changes stick
✨ A random sprinkling of surprises the good 'ol fashioned way (aka snail mail) because delight is my middle name (it's actually Ellyn but go with me here...)
What you get...
But...can it really be that simple? Yup...
After we chat, if you're a yes, I send you the invoice based on whatever we talked about (in full or cash flow friendly payment plan), a contract and once paid and signed, I send you your welcome packet and the work begins!
You check in with yourself - is your gut telling you this is the right time and high-level support is exactly what you need and you're excited by the possibilities?
And if you're a no? No worries and know that I loved connecting with you and I'm always in your corner and you know where to find me.
If yes, we either hop on a no-obligation, non-salesy call (because ew) OR we chat in our DMs and make sure we're a good fit which we probably are if you've made it this far! Prefer email? email@example.com
Here's what can happen next...
Working with Jen has given me clarity and courage around accepting my true self and the values of connection. Any time I got off a call with her I felt refreshed and clear-headed. She always held a safe place for me to clear my mind while also asking powerful questions to help me see things from a new perspective. She helped me realize I’m never really alone.
Let's get you living & loving the hell out of yourself and your life asap!
Keep things status quo and keep wondering if this is all there ever is...
Continue strong-arming your way through life & to-do list you're not even on
Put your brave pants on and get support so you can take control of your happiness & fulfillment
Create a solid, loving relationship with yourself so you always have your own back
Stop living from a space of unaccomplished dreams
What's the cost if things stay the same?
Your investment for all this...
pay in full or cash flow friendly payment plans - 3 monthly payments of $800 or 6 monthly payments of $400
Expert guidance and support over 12 sessions where you:
✨ Become your favoritest self by knowing yourself inside and out so you never have to second-guess who the hell you are
✨ Live & love the hell out of yourself and your life because you know exactly what you need to keep you happy, content, and deeply fulfilled
✨ Are prepared for life’s curve balls with a library full of tools & resources you'll use time and again
✨ Always have your own back through prioritizing yourself without feeling guilty alongside all the other important things on your to-do list
✨Turn those unaccomplished dreams into a reality with a roadmap that excites the hell out of and energizes you
Jen has a magical way of getting right into the crevasse of an issue and lovingly helping you to crack it wide open in order for you to let it properly heal. She has an ever-so-loving presence about her and will momma bear through the unshackling process of coming home to yourself and healing from the issues that lie deep down inside of yourself.
Thank you for showing me the mirror and allowing me to finally see and acknowledge the fear that I have been living with. This fear has been so deep that it is literally preventing me from moving forward. It is because of your warmth, kindness, and ability to “go there” with me. You held me in such a safe space that I was able to finally see myself and know that I was going to be okay. You have an incredible gift.
We're going to make sure we're a good fit and you're ready to "do the work" well ahead of time but if for any reason we get a few calls in (3 to be exact) and you're just not feeling it or it's not, in fact, the right time?
I give you a full, no questions (well - I will ask if it's fear making the decision (it'll be popping up around now) because we can work with fear!) asked refund (minus sessions used) because there's nothing worse then being locked into a contract and not getting what you expected or need.
I've never needed to do this but it's there just in case!
Not only am I a Certified Life Coach, I've been coaching and mentoring people for literal decades through my professional work as an expert software development project manager.
I know a thing or 100 about "doing the work" and getting results quickly.
I once tried to burn my entire life down by leaving my husband and it backfired spectacularly when at the 11th hour, my heart finally started talking louder than my ego.
My heart did NOT want a divorce and knew it would only make my loneliness, discontent, and restlessness 10x worse.
Thankfully my husband took me back which kickstarted rebuilding myself from the inside out because wherever you go, there you are.
Through "doing the work", I not only healed myself and my marriage but years of childhood trauma and decades of heartaching loneliness.
It's my absolute pleasure, honor, and delight to help other women say a ginormous "Fuck you" to a world that profits from our pain and live & love the everloving hell out of our lives instead.
I help "have it all" women live lives that feel as good as they look
✨ Feel stuck...not quite happy if you're being honest but also kind of guilty because your life is actually pretty freaking great and who are you to want more?
✨ Are wondering if this is all there ever is because EFF THAT!
✨ Feel both over and underwhelmed with life. You've done everything "right" but feel like you're existing...languishing and dammit - you want to THRIVE
✨ Are unable to truly be present in your life because you always kind of feel like you have one foot out the door
✨ Are the one in your friend group who "has it all together" but if only they knew the inner struggle dancing a rager in your head
✨ Have stacks of self-help books that are collecting dust because actually doing the work feels overwhelming and like one more thing to do
This is for you if you...
We're a good fit if you...
✨ Know there's more for you than checking the boxes but you're just kind of burnt out and ready to wave the white flag and ask for guidance & support
✨ Are ready to really dig deep and figure out a) what you truly want from life (i.e. not someone else's dream) and b) what's getting in your way from that today
✨ Feel excited to take inspired & intentional action
✨ Love getting curious, experimenting, and believe imperfect action is greater than getting it "right"
✨ Value perseverance, determination, and grittiness coupled with heaping doses of self-kindness and compassion
✨ Have a good sense of humor and don't get offended easily (I have the sense of humor of a 12-yo boy so...)
let's work together
Here's some things people have asked before working with me
09. One more...my life is pretty full...how can I possibly find time for this?
08. I have a different question...
07. Ok...I want to do it but am worried what hubby/partner/wife/bff/mom will say...
06. What happens after I say yes?
05. Do you offer payment plans?
04. It's probably a lot of money and I've never spent that much on myself before
03. I've never really told anyone this stuff...
02. What's it like working with you?
01. Who is your coaching for?
This is best for the woman who is a go-getter, action-taker, magic-maker, get-shit-doner who "has it all" but goes to bed each night feeling kind of stuck, bored, unsatisfied, unfulfilled, and wondering if this is all there ever is.
She knows she is meant for more and is DONE feeling guilty about it and is instead, ready to take the bull by the horns and ride that sucker until she's living a live that lights her up, turns her on, and has her going to bed each night thinking, "I can't wait to do that again tomorrow.".
She might not be sure what that "more" is but that's exactly why this is the right time, right package.
She's done feeling like time is slipping by and she's no going to live her remaining decades thinking, "Is this really all there ever is?!" and doing the same old same old routine.
My brilliantly perfect client is a women who knows her worth and sees glimmers of who she wants to be but isn't sure how to get there. That's where I come in and that's when the magic-making begins.
Is this you? Let's hop on a call and discuss!
If you've read my About page already you know I'm warm, funny, sarcastic, irreverent, and sometimes stick my foot in my mouth. I'm also super safe, non-judgmental, and not afraid to lovingly call you on your b.s. that's holding you back.
Think of me as your fave older sister that you can tell anything to. She'll keep your secrets, hold you to a high standard, see the potential in you and work to draw it out and she will cheer you on almost embarrassingly so. She might even sneak you some Boone's Farm or Mad Dog 20/20. (Ew.)
My job is to ask the hard, powerful questions, offer perspective, uncover your blind spots and give you space to explore and get curious. I will offer supportive tools in our sessions to help you bust through any lingering blocks that are keeping you stuck and feeling less than. Basically - I've got your back.
Big mama bear hugs to you and I get it…that was me for 45 of my 52 years so I get it….OH do I get it. I also get the bone-aching loneliness that comes when we keep our deepest and darkest to ourselves. And I don't want that for you or anyone for that matter.
Being nervous is 1000% normal AND getting real and vulnerable with ourselves and others is the way through and why not practice in a super safe, non-judgmental, and completely supportive space? I've got you…promise.
If you're anything like I was - I was spending the money anyway trying to escape my life. Now I don't have a life I want to escape from.
All the things you're doing to fill the holes you feel inside? Temporary at best. It feels good in the moment and then fades.
What I'm talking about is lasting transformation that impacts the remaining entirety of your life. How do you put a price tag on that?
I'm not going to guilt or shame you into coaching but I want you to think...how much is living and loving your life worth? How much is NOT living and loving your life costing you?
That's priceless to me. If you are a resourced woman (time, money, etc.) I invite you to at least have a quick convo with me to see if it's a good time and right fit or schedule a 90-min intensive to check it out first before you commit to a longer coaching engagement.
I sure do! I also offer a sliding scale (kind of like the green jar theory) for those who truly need it (i.e. basic needs are being met but really could use coaching to help improve their lives including financial stability).
We can chat more about this during our free call. You'll find I truly hold a judgement-free space. I've had help in my past and love having the ability to help others.
I am so glad you asked!
You do a happy dance, I do a happy dance and then I send an excited email explaining that a contract and invoice will be coming in separate emails.
Once you pay (in full or spread over monthly payments) and sign the contract, I send a welcome packet that has the link to book your sessions, expectations for both of us, how to connect between sessions, etc.
I also give you your first exercise which is to start dreaming about your future self. Start with Desire is the first S in my SELFISH framework so we hit the ground running by creating a delightful vision of your future self and build from there.
Tell them. Share with them why this is so important to you and why now is the right time.
"I want to be the best possible version of myself for you, the kiddos, and myself. I want to wake up in the morning excited to do it all over again. I want to feel energized, vibrant, ALIVE! and that means spending time just for me and NOT feeling selfish or guilty about it."
I know you love and support me and want the best for me too and this is it."
Let your heart do the talking here. Be open, vulnerable, honest, and kind.
You can't control the other person(s) - you can only represent yourself and your needs.
I feel like it's time for a little tough love.
It's not good, bad, right, or wrong if this is your question so let's put those self-judgy pants away.
If you've been reading my site and following me on insta and your heart keeps coming back to this work AND you have this question?
That tells me all I need to know. Your life if full but is it FULL of all the things that make you YOU? That make you come alive? That provide you joy and fulfillment, and excitement, and enthusiasm?
Life is in the 50/50 - it's not always bad and it's not always toe-curling, mind-numbingly good. But having your own back? Betting on yourself time and again? Getting your needs met so you can be who you
wantneed to be for yourself and others?
That shit is priceless. The sooner you start, the happier you'll be.
If you feel like you don't have the time, that's your indication that NOW is the absolute best time to put yourself first - at least for a while so you can figure some things out.
Your life can feel as good as it looks. This starts with getting super clear on what you really truly want so you can create plans, sidestep roadblocks, and take inspired action to move you closer and closer to that life.
You can have super strong faith in yourself. You know deep in your bones that you have the strength, resilience, and chutzpah to navigate life’s ups and downs all while making sure you’re getting your most important needs met so you stay deeply content and fulfilled.
You can go to sleep each night knowing you poured your heart and soul into living and loving your life. You have so much to give the world if only you weren’t so damn exhausted from carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders. The good news is that there's a choice for a better way of living.
You know growth comes from stepping outside your comfort zone and you’ve done that time and time again in your professional life. Now it’s time to do it in your personal life and I’m here to guide you so you're not left on your own thinking…where do I even start?
Life’s good but it can feel GREAT when you make sure the energy you put out helps you feel fulfilled, empowered, and you are finally doing things for YOU.
I can't wait to support you.
What becomes possible when you're living your fulfilling life?