Give your 80-yo future self what she most wantsneeds in life

 Ask her (yes, really!) and she'll tell you exactly how to live your fullest, happiest, most contented life not someday...but TODAY! Win/win

A WILDLY FULFILLING LIFE

Give your 80-yo future self what she most wantsneeds in life

Yes please

 Ask her (yes, really!) and she'll tell you exactly how to live your fullest, happiest, most contented life not someday...but TODAY! Win/win

A WILDLY FULFILLING LIFE

Does 80-yo you still love PSLs and getting into all sorts of fun trouble? I bet she does!

What advice does your 80-yo future self have for you?

She is NOT messing around when it comes to her life's fulfillment + contentment. She holds the answers to questions like "Is this all there is?", "Is it ok to want more?", and "What's it all for?".

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Here's what I know. You can have a "#blessed" life and still feel restless, wildly unfulfilled and wanting more.

I was there at one point too...feeling guilty for wanting more when life was actually pretty damn great...but it didn't feel great which made me feel horribly ungrateful. Talk about a vicious, unproductive cycle!

Around here, we start from a place of desire by tapping into the wisdom of your 80-yo future self...the one who is deeply fulfilled, content, happy, and proud of how she's lived her life.

She has the answers to questions like, "What do I actually want from my life? What do I want my impact to be? How can I love myself and my life? What makes me feel fulfilled + content?".

From there...we work backwards to reverse engineer a plan that feels good - one that's full of joy and pleasure, hope and possibility.

Because that's the key to making changes that stick...when the journey feels good.

Imagine falling asleep each night excited to do it all over again tomorrow because your life finally feels as good as it looks

The truth? If nothing changes, nothing changes

Thank you for showing me the mirror and allowing me to finally see and acknowledge the fear that I have been living with. This fear has been so deep that it is literally preventing me from moving forward. It is because of your warmth, kindness, and ability to “go there” with me. You held me in such a safe space that I was able to finally see myself and know that I was going to be okay. You have an incredible gift.

I'M ABLE TO FINALLY SEE MYSELF AND KNOW I'M GOING TO BE OK

Heather K.

My 80-yo future self helped me heal from decades of loneliness and a shitty childhood and saved my marriage and so much more

In 2015, at my lowest, I saw 2 paths before me - becoming a bitter, resentful old woman (the path I was on) OR "do the work" and become the vibrant, happy, lively 80-yo self who was proud of the life she'd lived.

I chose the latter. My mission became learning how to become her ASAP and now at 52, I can happily say I live my version of a life that feels as good as it looks.

My inner 80-yo future self is pretty feisty and recently told me she wants more color in her wardrobe so who was I to say no to the fuchsia Doc Marten's?!?

Hi :), I'm Jen

Create a detailed & rich vision of your best possible 80-yo future self - the one who has accomplished all she's wanted to and lives a life full of contentment, gratitude, and fulfillment. We're talking down to the thread-count of her sheets here!

With that vision in mind, take an objective look at all facets of your life to see what's working & what's not, what's getting in your way (yes, sometimes it is you), create plans and then take inspired & intentional actions to help current AND future you live your most fulfilling life possible.

Tools to help you move through your life having your own back, knowing how to get your needs met, making the impact you want on the world, prioritizing fulfillment & contentment. Never doubt again that you deserve every bit of it. Never question if this is all there ever is EVER again.

START WITH DESIRE & FIND THE CLUES

MAKE IT REAL

The  Make Your Future Self Happy Solution

LIVE A LIFE THAT FEELS AS GOOD AS IT LOOKS

I want this!

INTRODUCING

Learn how to apply my signature SELFISH framework in your life and read other blog posts while you're there. This is the core of any work I do with clients or group programs.

Take the quiz to see what wisdom your wisest, coolest, most badassest future self has for today you. Wisdom that makes sure 80-yo you isn't sitting in her rocking chair hella pissed that you didn't take action sooner!

What to do next...

If you're reading along and are like "Hell yes I need this!!!!!" let's make it happen. 1:1 coaching may be the perfect fit for you and I promise I help get you there (living your wildly fulfilling life) faster.

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Make 80-yo you pee her depends excited & proud, looking back saying, "That was one helluva ride.".

join me in giving the middle finger to feeling unfulfilled a second longer

COMING HOME TO YOURSELF AND HEALING FROM DEEP WITHIN

Jen has a magical way of getting right into the crevasse of an issue and lovingly helping you to crack it wide open in order for you to let it properly heal. She has an ever-so-loving presence about her and will momma bear through the unshackling process of coming home to yourself and healing from the issues that lie deep down inside of yourself.

I'M ABLE TO FINALLY SEE MYSELF AND KNOW I'M GOING TO BE OK

Thank you for showing me the mirror and allowing me to finally see and acknowledge the fear that I have been living with. This fear has been so deep that it is literally preventing me from moving forward. It is because of your warmth, kindness, and ability to “go there” with me. You held me in such a safe space that I was able to finally see myself and know that I was going to be okay. You have an incredible gift.

ACCEPTING MY TRUE SELF AND WHAT I VALUE MOST

Working with Jen has given me clarity and courage around accepting my true self and the values of connection. Any time I got off a call with her I felt refreshed and clear-headed. She always held a safe place for me to clear my mind while also asking powerful questions to help me see things from a new perspective. She helped me realize I’m never really alone.

I FELT TOTALLY SEEN AND UNDERSTOOD AND SAFE

Jen has an acute intuition and ability to discover what's beneath the surface through the use of powerful questions and metaphors. Jen helped see that my unwanted controlling behavior was a reflection of my fear of being hurt and taken advantage of. When we explore the things we're not proud of, our deepest fears and secrets, we can feel vulnerable.

Truthtellers like Jen open doors for all of us to go there in the conversations we need/want to have in our own lives.

Thank you for your vulnerability and courage!


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