I'm Jen


work with me

hey there!

I'm a coach for have-it-all checked out profesh moms who secretly dream of running away but know that's not really the answer.

I'm also the host of Going There - a show dedicated to all the stuff we keep deep down inside but shouldn't.

the podcast


~ Haruki Murakami

For my fiftieth episode of Going ThereI had the utmost pleasure of journeying with Rachel Allen, a word wizard who overcame many of life’s biggest challenges and discovered herself in all of her shining glory at the end of it all.

We discuss how she navigates through the emotional labor, grief, and guilt caused by the loss of her long-term relationship, her family, and the life that she thought she knew.

At the end of the episode, we celebrate what a badass bitch Rachel is through it all and what a gift these grueling experiences really are.

Join us to hear the inspirational tale of how losing it all can help you find yourself!


Healer. Writer. Overall Badass.

Rachel Allen is a writer, copyist, and coach who has really survived a lot of shit in life. She is a true survivor who left a fundamentalist household, an unhealthy long-term relationship, and her old identity behind in order to discover who she truly was– her authentic, badass self.


GO Further

  • Why is guilt not always a negative force in life?
  • How can going through life’s hardships actually a gift?
  • How does hardship lead to resilience?
  • What are some benefits of getting lost in life?


RACHEL ALLEN is the founder of Bolt from the Blue Copywriting, a creative agency specializing in incredibly effective copy and content that gets right to the heart of who you are and makes your readers’ synapses sparkle.

Rachel Allen on Loss, Relationships, and Finding Her True Identity Through Life’s Hardships


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Well hey there,

I am Bridgerton steamy sex scene level OBSESSED with helping women figure out exactly why they're so checked out and lie awake at night thinking this is not the life they imagined and wondering how the hell they got here and do they need to burn it all down and start over?

I'm Jen.

because that's a pretty exhausting way to live

Instead, I help them get clear on what a peeyourpants future means for them, get super curious and look at their lives objectively (because - hello - it's hella hard to identify what to change when we're knee deep in our emotions), decide which changes will have the biggest impact, and take intentional and thoughtful actions without having to burn down their entire world.

And because I'm a professional bossypants (actual title) and have the sense of humor of a 12-year-old boy - I'll get you there faster and with lots of inappropriate laughter while we do the deep inner work.

i'm so ready to get checked all the fuck way in!!!

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